The Expression 




                

               Some times ago Varun and his family were looking for a girl for marriage; they went to a home of their so –called relative. Vasudha brought tea for them in a tray, half tea was in the cup and half tea had fallen in tray. Besides, visible corner of the tray were too dirty. When Varun’s mother and sister went to meet Vasudha in the kitchen ,they saw Gas stove(a fireplace), and kitchen both were not cleaned and wiped from several days, it was very maladroit. Bright granules of sugar  and scattered tea granule with white drops of milk had been dispersed haphazardly telling the personal note of Vasudha who was standing in front of them with a continuous look  at Varun's Sister. Normally, it is taught to girls how to stand before someone ,how to look at any one and how to speak. Girls are not supposed to  look continuously  at anyone.Moreover,on the floor shoes and slippers  were kept  next to the uncovered serving plate and open cooked food. Except this there were domestic Pests – Cockroach, lizards, ants all were existent in kitchen without anyone’s fear. The bedroom too was without curtain, where clothes were scattered in haphazard way. Precious silk coat and other costly garments were bitten by mice . Broken threads of ill-treated clothes by mice were seen all over the room. Dirty and without washed clothes were dumped in a corner of the room. In the courtyard, dry clothes seemed to be frozen with wire; dust was lying on the wire such as those were spread over several years. In addition with this some pairs of shoes of Vasudha were lied  chaotically. One shoe was lying in the east corner of the courtyard and second shoe of the pair was lying in west corner of the courtyard.

                 However,  Biodata of Vasudha spoke her as  a teacher of well-known, famous English medium  school but  from the functioning of kitchen and disordered household things it was quite clear that how her personality and  the way of thinking was? She did not posses perfect way to prepare the food in a manner that keeps the kitchen clean and can be called a “tea is made” as tea making includes preparation of tea with the organized kitchen and serving skill with timely polite gesture, humble facial expression and a good body language . In short, she expressed her personality  by her behavior without uttering even a single word. 

                  Thus, execution of  any work is the manifestation of  emotions,thoughts and feelings. In education system, it is very important to teach attitude, outlook, facial expression and body language for execution of any daily work. It is only the manner of execution of getting  any  daily-work done which can be considered as the reflection of someone’s personality and thoughts. Also, this is the execution of work which tells how intelligent, educated, and polite the person is? It can be applied in case of women of particular standards. For instance, if the execution of work is compared with a well educated, learned woman and an uneducated woman, we find that both do the same work but there can be a major difference in performance of both of the women. An educated learned woman is probe to perform her work in best organized ways with positive attitude, facial expression and body language whereas unlearned woman performs every work in haphazard and avoiding ways. A woman is the first teacher of child, the center of family who inculcates good values in  family members and in others around  by her every activity whether it is mute or expressed. Therefore, the execution of work in perfect way is most important thing in daily course of life.